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We would-be
human beings are born in a state
of ignorance. When we arrive in this sphere of existence,
none of
us has a clue as to what is going on. We have to learn the
local
language and become oriented. Every society has its stories
designed
to inform new members about the way things are here. And
because
we hear these explanations and accountings from our families, teachers
and friends, we are inclined to believe them.
Our informants, of course,
were born ignorant,
too, and are just proceeding on the basis of what somebody once told
them.
But so united in agreement is everyone around us, and so compelling is
the ongoing local activity, that we tend not to think too much about
the
sources and reliability of the stories we are hearing, but rather to
accept
them as given.
And yet it is quite clear that
which stories
we hear and accept for true depends completely on the circumstances of
our birth. We believe we are who and what we are told we are
-- and
people in different times and cultures and classes have had very
different
tales to tell.
Human stories disagree and
disagree and disagree.
And when they do, we know which ones are to be relied upon and which
are
not.
Our stories -- whoever we
happen to be --
are right. Everybody else's are doubtful or worse.
Just look how mistaken the
stories of former
times were. And as recently as yesterday, too.
Nor were they off target just
one time, or
in one way. To the extent that we can recover the wisdom of
the past,
it's one set of bizarre yarns after another. When you look at
them
all, it has to seem a wonder that we ever managed to get here from
there.
Many stories are told today, too, by
people on the
other side of the world, the other side of campus, or the other side of
the street, which are incompatible with the stories we swear
by.
We know what that has to mean. Those stories are wrong,
too.
Because if they aren't, then our stories must be, and that would leave
us dangling in the middle of nothing with no foundation. Just
like
everybody else.
As it is, we're uniquely
lucky. Out
of all the people living now or who've ever lived, it seems that it is
we who are specially privileged to be the ones with the true scoop.
What a comfort to know.
Except that when we're in a
state of mind
to examine our own rationales and constructions more closely than we
usually
do, and are honest enough to say what's really there and what isn't, we
have to acknowledge that the tales we tell are less than airtight,
too.
They display their own share of unknowns, contradictions, vaguenesses,
gaps and exclusions.
It seems that story is all
people have to
live by...but every story that we tell is limited and flawed.
Whatever
should we make of that?
Well, for one thing, if you
add up all the
stories we've told, it looks as though at one time or another people
have
been ready to believe just about any damn thing and attempt to live as
though it were really so.
Not only that, but --
strangely and wonderfully
-- all these many different incompatible and mistaken stories appear to
work, at least for as long and as well as they do work. Some
of the
queerest -- by contemporary standards -- managed to work for a very
long
time.
It appears that the ground of
being which
underlies and sustains us despite our various inadequate and
conflicting
stories must be extremely tolerant, generous and forgiving.
All things considered, it
wouldn't hurt if
we were, too.
A story is a
sequential linking of one state
or condition with another, a series of "and thens." Story is
connection
and transformation.
The storyteller
said: "And so, all the
lands of the world came to swim in an immense ocean contained in the
armpit
of a great frog. The frog sits upon a turtle. The
turtle rests
on the back of an elephant. The elephant stands upon a rock."
He nodded then to indicate
that the story
was over. He was asked: "And what is under the rock holding
it up?"
"A story," he said, indicating
a height with
his hand.
"And what is under that?"
"Another story."
"And beneath that?"
The storyteller said, "It's
stories all the
way down."
No tale tells
all.
Anything and
everything we say is a story elaborated
out of previous story.
A metaphor is a story in a
word. It says that
one thing is another.
Every sentence has a story to
tell.
We cannot open our mouths to
speak without
uttering story. We cannot help ourselves. Language
is storytelling.
Semanticist Alfred Korzybski
wanted us to
be more aware than we usually are that we are telling stories, and that
what we say is incomplete and contingent, and not reality. He
told
us that the map is not the territory. Those were
metaphors.
He also objected that use of the word "is" -- as in "language is
storytelling"
-- is partial and misleading and recommended that it be
avoided.
Yet watch his words as he would, Korzybski was no more able than the
rest
of us to stop using the verb of existence and identity.
Korzybski,
whether he liked it or not, was a storymaker.
Scientists and objectivists
tell their stories
in rigidly framed sentences using the most inert metaphors they can
find.
They are still telling stories.
Deconstructionists demonstrate
that our most
respected studies and sciences aren't truly authoritative after all,
but
are only so many stories. Even as they do this, they're
telling stories
too.
Story is the
one aspect of society which reflects
all aspects of society.
Gregory Bateson
said: "The fact of thinking
in terms of stories does not isolate human beings as something separate
from the starfish and the sea anemone, the coconut palms and the
primroses.
Rather, if the world be connected, if I am at all fundamentally right
in
what I am saying, then thinking in terms of stories must be shared by
all
mind or minds, whether ours or those of redwood forests and sea
anemones."
The value of a
story is not measured by what
one person or another is able to make of it, but by what it includes
and
what it connects and what it makes possible.
All existence
is a story. Everything
which has being in time is a story within a story.
Story is inherent in the
past-to-future flow
of time. Story is the means by which an evolutionary universe
manifests
itself, connecting and transforming, connecting and transforming,
connecting
and transforming.
A rock is a very simple story.
Living beings are more
complex, active and
meaningful stories. What distinguishes us among living
creatures
is the degree to which we have internalized story. We don't
just
mark time like a rock, or express the pattern of our kind like the
redwood
forest and the sea anemone. We think story. We act
story.
We make stories of our lives. We connect and transform.
We are only so-so good at it
thus far.
If we were more aware that
storytelling is
what we are doing, we might be more ready to change our stories when
they
need to be changed. If we were less attached to the stories we tell, we
might be better at reconciling our stories when they have to be
reconciled.
We're also prone to forget that if we are going to be active creators
of
story, we are under an obligation to tell the best and most useful
stories
that we can conceive.
But if the universe is story,
and the evolution
of life on this planet is story, and our striving to complete our
humanity
is story, then we're on the right track.
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